My buddy and long time roommate, Marty, asked if
he could use my computer in the late hours of one night last week. Later I’d find out that I was,
regretfully, doing the right thing.
I had to pry my computer out of his hands two
hours later.
Bored out of my own mind from lack of Hulu,
Netflix, news searching and Stumbling, my Skype was open, computer drained of
battery, and Marty had a disappointing look in his eye as he tried to get his
own computer to stop fritzing.
You could say that Marty’s the lucky one of us
four roomates. You also might be able to
tell from this vague incident that Marty has a girlfriend; He’s in LOVE.
And I mean the mushy, gushy, squishy,
i-cant-stop-stairing-into-your-not-so-special-eyes kind of love.
Either it seems obsolete or too good to be true
at this age, but ultimately love is an innate
part of us humans. We aren’t the
only animals that can experience this emotion, but we definitely – like other
emotions – express them the most.
Love defines an attachment we have to people, and extreme cases, things.
We all know that there are obviously different
kinds of love. Friendship love,
familial love, erotic love, religious love. In lieu of Valentine’s Day, I’ve provided some of
my favorite Facebook posts of the day exemplifying how these kinds of love are displayed.
Christel Carmody:
"I said yes this day to the love of my life...
And now I get to keep him forever. Let our adventures continue! Chris thank you
for believing in us and know that you are my world.. I love you 7!"
Chris Carmody:
[Posted on his wife's wall.]
Alison Mears:
"We just have a lot of feelings, okay?
Dean:
"I ran over cupid on my way to work this morning! YES! Lol"
Dean:
Allie Albright:
"Missing my better halves on valentines day... NINATAKA KONYAGI SASA HIVI"
Amanda Lupo:
"To my boyfriend, Nutella. Omg, where to begin! I
love you so much babe, and you have literally been there for me ever since my
rugrat days. You never falter to put a smile on my face. Even though you broke
up with me because of my abrupt teenage weight gain, when we got together, I
swear...it was like someone put us on some wheat bread & we became a new
love sandwich. You were my first kiss & yea kid, I'm plan for you to be my
last. ♥ ♥ ♥ happy valentines day,
Nutella!"
Millennium Promise:
"Happy Valentine's Day!
Share the love!
Want to know
how you can become part of Millennium Promise and help end extreme poverty?
Join the 2015 Circle and become a monthly donor! Every gift at any level
counts. http://bit.ly/VgPfUq
(Child singing at the kindergarten
of Kominé in Tiby, Mali)"
Jess Curlyfries:
"Sure, announce to the class
Ms. Curley is pregnant with a baby boy. Sure, tell her she can find a boyfriend
on a dating website to get her pregnant. Sure, tell her that the chocolate
she's eating is going to make her pregnant with a food baby that "comes
out the other end." Sure, be the most hysterically inappropriate 6th grade
class on the face of the earth..."
There you have it. I hope you have the same loving friends that I do. You can't tell me its not an adventure to pick out all the different kinds of love around us. Whether its "Marty Love" - to which I fully support the relationship with his magnificent girlfriend - or just a simple love for helping others, we experience these every day.
So if your mopey about Valentine's Day, the next time the date comes around, don't think of it in terms of Marty Love.
Spread your love anyway you want. Make it about the love.